I Finally Invested In a Quality Pillow and It's Completely Changed My Sleep

I Finally Invested In a Quality Pillow and It's Completely Changed My Sleep

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If you read any health-related stories at all, you know by now that sleep is king. Getting a full night of quality sleep is apparently the secret to better health, focus, energy, and so much more. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), the average adult needs seven or more hours of sleep each night, which should sound doable for most people.

But for many of us, especially women, we reach a certain age (hello, middle-aged years!) and suddenly the idea of a full night’s rest becomes more and more elusive. It seemed like one night I was sleeping just fine, then all of a sudden, I was tossing and turning at odd hours, leaving me to wake up unrefreshed. In turn, I'd be dragging throughout most of my day, which, as a parent of three busy kids with logistically complicated schedules, is not ideal.

My phone apparently heard all my complaints, and I soon started receiving dozens of targeted ads for specialty pillows, some costing hundreds of dollars. As someone who’s never invested in a pillow beyond what was available at my nearest big box store, I resisted.

Fast forward many months later: I was still waking up poorly rested, with an aching neck and upper back, and just a general feeling of “I will never fully sleep again.” So I bit the bullet. I decided to try out a “fancy” pillow, and I haven’t looked back since. It’s been a year since my Great Pillow Swap, and I can confidently say I now sleep through (most) of my nights. I also fall asleep quickly and wake up with no aches and pains.

If you’re ready to try a new pillow, you don't have to spend months feeling exhausted or pay a fortune to find the one that’s right for you. We’ve listed some of the best customizable pillows out there, including the one that finally changed everything for me.

Sleepnumber comfort fit pillow

Sleep Number ComfortFit Pillow

When I first opened the package for this pillow, I was surprised by how lofty it looked. I worried it might be too much for my neck. Thankfully, it turned out to offer just the right amount of support, not too firm and not too soft.

The ComfortFit comes with three removable memory foam inserts, so you can customize the height and feel to suit your sleep style. As a back and side sleeper, I started with all three in. My husband, who’s a side sleeper, prefers just one. I've since settled on two inserts, and I love how the foam contours to my head without leaving my neck stiff in the morning.

After over a year of daily use, the cushions have shown no sign of flattening out or sinking in where our heads often rest. That’s an improvement over some down pillows I’ve used that appear to deflate over time. And while it’s not marketed as a cooling pillow, the ComfortFit has a Lyocell blend cover that appears to be breathable and not trap heat.

Brooklinen’s Marlow pillow is a fantastic budget option. The way you customize it is a little different: You use two zippers to adjust the pillow between three height (loft) levels. I love that this means you don’t have to fuss with taking inserts in and out and finding a place to store unused ones. It also boasts a cooling-infused memory foam to keep your head nice and cool all night long.

According to the brand, side sleepers should keep both sides zipped up for maximum support. Back sleepers should unzip just one side. And stomach sleepers should unzip both sides for more of a cushy feel. Those who have allergies will want to note the antimicrobial cover.

If you're looking for a pillow that does it all, the Purple DreamLayer Pillow may be worth the splurge — especially if you tend to sleep hot. Unlike traditional memory foam, Purple's proprietary GelFlex Grid technology features hundreds of air channels that contour to your head and neck while actively dissipating heat. So you never have to flip to the “cool side” in the middle of the night.

Like the Sleep Number ComfortFit, this pillow comes with removable booster layers (two of them). Using these lets you personalize the pillow to one of three loft options depending on your sleep position. The trade-off for all that innovation is the price: It's one of the pricier picks on this list. And be aware that, like many foam pillows, it may need a day or two to air out when it first arrives.

Still looking for that “just right” pillow? We tested 70 styles to come up with a list of the best pillows for every sleeping position.

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Esther Carlstone

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Esther Carlstone is a writer and editor who primarily covers health, parenting, travel, and women's lifestyle. Her work has appeared in Health, Parents, US News & World Report, Wha...

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Nicole Bonaccorso is a writer and editor with more than 12 years of journalism experience. She has been writing for Everyday Health since 2025, and has also been published on NBCNe...

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Resources
  1. About Sleep. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. May 15, 2024.