Living Well With HPV: 5 Tips for Safer Sex

If you’re sexually active, it’s likely you’ll be infected by the human papillomavirus (HPV) at some time in your life. Most people with HPV don’t develop any symptoms or health problems from the virus because the body’s immune system is able to fight off the infection.
“Most women and men with the virus will never know they have it,” says Vanessa Cullins, MD, MPH, a retired board-certified obstetrician-gynecologist and former vice president for medical affairs at Planned Parenthood Federation of America.
Still, some people do develop genital warts, which can come from certain types of HPV. Some women learn they have HPV after an abnormal Pap smear, a procedure in which a doctor collects cells from the cervix to check for cancerous or precancerous changes.
If you’re concerned about contracting HPV, talk to your doctor about which tests are available and recommended for you.
5 Ways to Lower Your Risk of HPV Infection and Transmission
If you know you’re infected with HPV — or even if you’re not sure — what can you do to safeguard yourself and your sexual partner from HPV transmission?
First, assume you’ll be living with some type of HPV virus at some point in your life. “Everyone who is sexually active, vaccinated or not, should make this assumption,” Dr. Cullins says.
Then consider these steps to help protect yourself and anyone with whom you have intimate contact.
1. Get Vaccinated and Encourage Your Partner to Do So
Keep in mind that FDA approval of the vaccine doesn’t guarantee your health insurance will cover its cost. Adults ages 27 to 45 who are interested in being vaccinated against HPV should check with their insurer first to make sure they’re not faced with surprise medical expenses.
Gardasil 9 protects against the two HPV strains that cause most genital warts, types 6 and 11, as well as against seven cancer-causing types of HPV, including HPV types 16 and 18.
2. Use Condoms During Sex
Use condoms or dental dams for vaginal, oral, or anal sex, and never reuse condoms.
3. Get Regular Medical and Dental Checkups
Nearly all cases of cervical cancer are caused by HPV infection, and it’s usually curable when found early.
The American Cancer Society (ACS) recommends getting screened for cervical cancer starting at age 25. Between ages 25 and 65, the ACS recommends screening every three to five years — depending on the test type and collection method — to look for early signs of cancer.
While no equivalent screening tests exist to detect precancerous conditions of the mouth or throat, “routine preventive dental and medical care is one of the best prescriptions for ongoing health,” Cullins says.
4. Learn to Identify HPV Symptoms
Know the symptoms of HPV-related infections so you can be on the lookout for them in yourself and your partner.
If you or your partner is being treated for an HPV-related infection, refrain from having sex until treatment is completed.
5. Practice Good Genital Hygiene
After having sex, urinate to rinse any germs from your urethra, and wash your genitals with soap and water. This can help clean away bacteria or viruses before they have time to infect you.
The Takeaway
- The majority of sexually active people will get an HPV infection at some point in their lives.
- Most HPV infections are asymptomatic, but some cause cervical and other forms of cancer.
- Vaccination, regular screenings, and consistent condom use can all help prevent HPV transmission and complications.
Resources We Trust
- Mayo Clinic Health System: Protecting Yourself Against HPV
- Cleveland Clinic: Oral HPV
- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC): HPV Vaccine Recommendations
- National Cervical Cancer Coalition: Cervical Cancer Screening: Pap and HPV Tests
- American College of Obstetricians & Gynecologists: What to Think About If You Test Positive for HPV
Additional reporting by Ingrid Strauch.
- About Genital HPV Infection. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). January 31, 2025.
- HPV Vaccine Recommendations. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). July 9, 2024.
- Gardasil 9. U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA). March 26, 2025.
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John Paul McHugh, MD
Medical Reviewer
John Paul McHugh, MD, is an obstetrician-gynecologist and lifestyle medicine specialist in southern California. He has always placed wellness at the center of his work, in both delivering babies and improving practice standards. Dr. McHugh believes that bringing lifestyle medicine to the center of health and wellness empowers patients to make the change they seek and enjoy the benefits of true wellness.
He is a graduate of Harvard Medical School and the Massachusetts Institute of Technology and a fellow of the American College of Lifestyle Medicine. He served as a department chair at Scripps Mercy Hospital in San Diego and is now the chair-elect for the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists for California.
He has published several articles in the American Journal of Lifestyle Medicine and served as a peer reviewer for many articles. He contributed to the first textbook of lifestyle medicine in women's health: Improving Women's Health Across the Lifespan.

Beth W. Orenstein
Author
Beth W. Orenstein is a freelance writer for HealthDay, Radiology Today, the Living Well section of The American Legion Magazine, St. Luke’s University Health Network, and others. She is a magna cum laude graduate of Tufts University (1978), where she majored in English and was editor of the student newspaper for three years.
No matter the weather around her eastern Pennsylvania home, Orenstein either bikes 25 to 30 miles or walks at least 6 miles every day. Her one indulgence is blueberry pancakes — but only after biking a long distance.