Schizophrenia and Family: How to Manage the Condition Together
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Schizophrenia and Family: 7 Tips for Coping Together

Schizophrenia and Family: 7 Tips for Coping Together
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A strong family support system can be invaluable for a person who’s been diagnosed with schizophrenia. But the condition is a serious one, and it can take its toll on people with the illness, as well as their loved ones and caregivers.

“The first thing I tell a family to do is to contact the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) and use their support and educational resources,” says Andrew Savageau, MD, a psychiatrist in private practice in Columbus, Ohio.

Here are more steps your family can take to help a relative cope with schizophrenia.

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1. Learn as Much as You Can About Schizophrenia

There are many misconceptions about schizophrenia in popular culture. By learning as much as you can about schizophrenia and educating others about the disease, you can separate the myths from facts and start to destigmatize the condition.

Plus, the more you know about schizophrenia, the better you’ll be at making informed decisions about your loved one’s care. Some key facts about schizophrenia:

  • Schizophrenia can be treated.
  • People with schizophrenia have a slightly elevated risk of violence, compared with the general population, but most people with the condition live their entire lives without engaging in violence — and in fact, they are more likely to be the victims of violent acts than the perpetrators of them.

  • Many people with schizophrenia can — and do — live well.

2. Seek Family Counseling

“Receiving a diagnosis of schizophrenia can be stressful for the entire family, so family therapy can be very helpful, especially early on,” Dr. Savageau says.

 For example, couples counseling can strengthen a marriage or partnership when one person (or the couple’s child) has been diagnosed with schizophrenia. “Living with schizophrenia can be a strain on a marriage,” he says, “and a struggling marriage makes it harder to be supportive for the person with schizophrenia.”

A doctor may be able to recommend a good local counseling program that can help your family learn coping strategies, better ways of communicating, and problem-solving skills that will help strengthen your relationships.

3. Develop a Home Treatment Plan

The goal is for people with schizophrenia to live in the community, not in an institution, Savageau says. That often means that relatives need to know exactly how to manage their family member’s condition.

Work with your loved one and their doctor to develop a plan that includes medication adherence strategies, a list of possible relapse signs, and a plan for what to do when a relapse occurs, says Savageau. “This plan should be written out, and everyone should know what their responsibilities are,” he says.

4. Make a Legal Plan

A person with schizophrenia may go through periods where they are too ill to understand that they need to be treated.

 Because of this, you should have a legal document called a psychiatric advance directive, which spells out what to do in that situation. The person with schizophrenia should be involved in this decision-making process, so it’s best to do this in advance, during a more stable period.

“An advance directive should specify what hospital to go to, what doctor to call, and what family member is making decisions,” Savageau says. “It must be legal and binding.” You can access specific state-by-state information on these legal documents through the National Resource Center on Psychiatric Advance Directives.

5. Make Your Home a Safe Place

Part of family education and counseling is learning how to create a supportive home environment. It’s important to be respectful and kind but not to tolerate inappropriate or dangerous behavior.

 “Avoid arguments and confrontations, make every effort to be in alliance with your family member, and validate their feelings,” says Savageau. “It can be a challenge, especially when a person with schizophrenia is dealing with delusions or hallucinations, but you need to use your communication and problem-solving skills.”

6. Boost Your Loved One’s Self-Confidence

Your home should be a safe space, not a hiding place. It’s important to help your relative recognize that their illness doesn’t define them. For example, encourage them to take some responsibility for their health and become as self-reliant as possible.

“Allowing your loved one to drop out of school or not have a job is unhealthy,” Savageau says. “Even a part-time job or a few classes can help foster responsibility and create a sense of independence. If you’re overprotective, it can prevent them from developing the confidence and social skills they need to succeed.”

Symptom reduction shouldn’t be the only gauge used to measure how successful treatment is. Quality of life is crucial: Developing healthy relationships, finding purpose, and staying active are all just as important as taking medication and going to therapy.

7. Don’t Forget to Take Care of Yourself

Caring about someone with schizophrenia can be stressful. And if you need to assume a caregiving role, whether it’s on occasion or more frequently, it’s not uncommon to experience burnout. According to research, caregivers for people with schizophrenia report that the role has a significant impact on their own physical and emotional health.

One way to get the support you need is to join a support group. This can help you connect with others going through similar challenges and allow you to talk openly and honestly about what you’re going through, feel less isolated, learn new coping skills, and receive support without judgment. Visit NAMI to find a caregiver support group in your area.

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