How to Recognize Signs of Autism

Autism is a neurodevelopmental disorder that affects how people communicate and interact with the world around them.
It can involve language and communication challenges, issues with social interaction, repetitive behaviors, and difficulty coping with change and altered routines. Autism looks different for everyone, varies by the level of support needed, and often appears in early childhood, though some people aren’t diagnosed until adolescence or adulthood.
Signs and Symptoms of Autism
- Avoiding eye contact or preferring to be alone
- Struggling to understand others’ feelings or when others are upset
- Not speaking or having trouble developing language skills
- Repeating words or phrases without knowing how to use them
- Getting upset by minor changes in one’s routine or surroundings
- Focusing intently on a specific activity or interest
- Persistent repetition of thoughts, speech patterns, or behaviors
- Making the same movements or gestures repetitively, such as hand flapping or spinning (also known as stimming)
- Having unusual or intense reactions to sounds, smells, tastes, textures, lights, or colors (sensory processing issues)
Autism in Babies and Young Children
Autistic children might display very specific, sometimes intense, interests in subjects that others might not, says Jeremy Veenstra-VanderWeele, MD, the director of child and adolescent psychiatry at the Columbia University Department of Psychiatry in New York City. In a conversation, an autistic child might return intently to a single topic repeatedly. For example, one child Dr. Veenstra-VanderWeele worked with had a very strong interest in sharks and didn’t talk about any other topic.
- Delayed skills with language
- Doesn’t make eye contact with others
- Doesn’t respond to their name by 9 months old
- Doesn’t show facial expressions reflecting happiness or sadness by 9 months old
- Doesn’t wave goodbye or make other gestures by age 1
- Doesn’t share interests with others, such as showing you an object they like, by 15 months
- Doesn’t point to things that interest them by 18 months
- Can’t tell when others are upset or hurt by age 2
- Doesn’t notice or join other kids in play by age 3
- Doesn’t play pretend (such as with superheroes) by age 4
- Doesn’t sing, dance, or act by age 5
Not all autistic children exhibit all of these behaviors, and some signs show up at different ages or in different ways. For instance, a rare pattern of regression called childhood disintegrative disorder (CDD), also known as Heller’s syndrome, is sometimes seen and considered a part of the autism spectrum.
Autism in Older Children and Adults
- They have trouble understanding what others are thinking or feeling.
- They take things very literally and struggle to understand sarcasm, idioms, or figures of speech.
- They have difficulty reading nonverbal cues like body language, facial expressions, or tone of voice.
- They find it hard to express their own emotions or understand social rules intuitively.
- They avoid eye contact or find it uncomfortable.
- They are highly focused and have intense interests in specific subjects or hobbies.
- They repeat certain movements, sounds, or phrases.
- They are more or less sensitive than others to sensory experiences, such as bright lights, loud noises, and certain textures or smells.
Diagnosing autism in previously undiagnosed adults can be challenging because the condition is so variable and can affect people differently over time, especially as people develop ways to manage or mask (or camouflage) their difficulties, says Veenstra-VanderWeele.
How Autism Can Differ by Sex
Additionally, some studies suggest that when autistic girls and women experience difficulties, like social challenges or sensory processing issues, they are more likely to turn their distress inward. This might mean they’re more likely to develop anxiety, become depressed, or quietly withdraw.
Types and Severity of Autism
Level 1 (Requiring Support)
- Difficulty starting conversations or making the first move socially
- Responding to others’ attempts to connect in ways that seem unusual or don’t lead to a typical back-and-forth
- Appearing to have less interest in social activities or engagement with others
- Having certain repetitive actions or routines that can get in the way of daily tasks or make it hard to adapt to new things
- May have difficulty shifting their attention away from a very strong interest or specific topic they’re focused on
Level 2 (Requiring Substantial Support)
- Difficulty with both spoken language and understanding or using nonverbal cues like gestures, facial expressions, or body language
- Showing little interest in starting social interactions or finding it very hard to do so
- Struggling to build friendships or connect with others, even when support is available
- Having very specific, intense interests or engaging in repetitive actions that are obvious to most people and often get in the way of daily activities
- Becoming very upset or frustrated if their strong interests, routines, or repetitive behaviors are disrupted
Level 3 (Requiring Very Substantial Support)
People diagnosed with level 3 autism require very substantial support due to severe challenges with social, learning, and communication skills and behaviors that significantly interfere with functioning in all areas of life. Both verbal and nonverbal social communication are severely limited. Symptoms of level 3 autism can include the following:
- Making few, if any, attempts to start social interactions with others
- Showing minimal, if any, reaction when other people try to engage with them socially
- Having extremely limited use of spoken language, perhaps only a few words or no words at all
- Being intensely focused on specific topics or objects, following rigid routines, or engaging in repetitive actions that disrupt most areas of life
- Finding it incredibly difficult to cope with any changes in their routine or surroundings
Potential Complications of Autism Spectrum Disorder
- Sleep disorders, epilepsy, migraine, cerebral palsy, and obesity
- Psychiatric and behavioral health conditions or issues, such as anxiety, depression, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), aggression, self-injury, food refusal, wandering, and tantrums
- Intellectual disabilities and differences in language development
- Problems in school, including difficulties with learning and academic achievement
- Challenges with employment and maintaining a job
- Social isolation and challenges in forming and maintaining relationships with peers
- Experience of victimization or being bullied in school or elsewhere
When to See a Doctor
The Takeaway
- Autism is a complex neurodevelopmental disorder with a broad spectrum, with signs that vary from person to person and can change over time.
- Characteristics can show up differently depending on a person’s age and required level of support, and may sometimes present differently in men and boys than in women and girls.
- Autism is often associated with other medical, psychiatric, or behavioral health conditions and can lead to challenges in areas like learning, social interaction, and daily living.
- If you have concerns about developmental differences or potential signs of autism, talking to a healthcare professional is the best way to get an accurate evaluation and find appropriate support.
Resources We Trust
- Mayo Clinic Health System: Understanding Autism: The Path to Diagnosis, Awareness, and Support
- Cleveland Clinic: Autism Therapies
- Centers for Disease Control and Prevention: Clinical Testing and Diagnosis for Autism Spectrum Disorder
- Autistic Self Advocacy Network: Beyond Coercion and Institutionalization: People With Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities and the Need for Improved Behavior Support Services
- Autism Society: New Autism Diagnosis
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Eric R. Williams, MD
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Eric Williams is the associate dean of student affairs and career advising and associate professor of neuropsychiatry and behavioral science at the University of South Carolina School of Medicine Columbia. He also works with the Prisma Health Midlands ACT team.
He earned his medical degree from the Wake Forest University School of Medicine and completed his general residency and child and adolescent fellowship with the Palmetto Health Alliance/University of South Carolina School of Medicine.
He has worked in an academic setting, an acute adolescent inpatient unit, an autism clinic, in juvenile justice, with college students, and as a traveling psychiatrist prior to his current positions.

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